Wedding anniversaries are a special chance to celebrate new milestones in your marriage, each of them with different traditional meaning and gift associated with it...
What do they all mean and where do they come from?
Gift-giving on the occasion of a wedding anniversary dates back to Roman times when husbands gave their wives a silver wreath for 25 years of marriage, and a gold wreath for 50 years. Medieval Germany had a similar tradition of exchanging silver and gold wreaths on these occasions.
In the 1920s, Emily Post, an American writer started a list of anniversary themes in a book titled “Etiquette”, published in 1922, which has been completed in 1937 by the American National Retail Jeweler Association. These are known as traditional themes linked with each marital year.
More recently, a contemporary list has also been created, where all the anniversary years have been linked with a theme or material. Today the anniversary years are not only symbolised by traditional and contemporary gifts, but they often have a flower, colour and gemstone associated with them as well.
But how to keep up with all these celebrations and gifts?
While different countries have different gift themes, we have tried to compile a table that details all the themes associated with each anniversary year to help guide you when thinking about an appropriate anniversary gift for your loved ones.
There are no definitive rules, so take this list for inspiration, and adjust to the recipient's tastes to find the perfect match they will cherish forever!
Wedding Anniversary | Traditional Theme | Modern Theme | Colour | Gemstone | Flower |
1st Year | Paper | Clocks | Gold, Yellow | Gold Jewellery | Carnation |
2nd Year | Cotton | China | Red | Garnet | Cosmos |
3rd Year | Leather | Crystal/Glass | Jade, White | Pearl | Sunflower |
4th Year | Linen/Silk (UK) Fruit/Flowers (US) |
Appliances (electrical) | Blue, Green | Blue Topaz | Geranium |
5th Year | Wood | Silverware | Turquoise, Pink | Sapphire | Daisy |
6th Year | Candy (UK) Iron (US) |
Wood | Purple, White | Amethyst | Calla lily |
7th Year | Wool (UK) Copper (US) |
Brass, Desk Sets | Yellow | Onyx | Freesia |
8th Year | Salt (UK) Bronze/Pottery (US) |
Linen, Lace | Bronze | Tourmaline | Clematis |
9th Year | Copper (UK) Willow, Pottery (US) |
Leather | Terracotta | Lapis Lazuli | Poppy |
10th Year | Tin (US & UK) Aluminum (US) |
Diamond Jewellery | Silver, Blue | Diamond | Daffodil |
11th Year | Steel | Fashion Jewellery, Accessories | Turquoise | Turquoise | Tulip |
12th Year | Linen, Silk (UK) Home Décor (US) |
Pearls | White | Jade | Peony |
13th Year | Lace | Textiles, Furs | White | Citrine | Chrysanthemum |
14th Year | Ivory | Gold Jewellery | Ivory | Opal | Orchid |
15th Year | Crystal | Watches | Red | Ruby | Rose |
16th Year | Silverware | Silver | Peridot | ||
17th Year | Furniture | Yellow | Amethyst, Citrine, Pink Tourmaline | Carnelian | |
18th Year | Porcelain | Blue | Cat’s Eye | ||
19th Year | Bronze | Bronze | Aquamarine | ||
20th Year | China | Platinum | Green, White | Emerald | Aster |
21st Year | Brass, Nickel | Orange | Iolite | ||
22nd Year | Copper | Green | Spinel | ||
23rd Year | Silver Plate | Silver | Imperial Topaz | ||
24th Year | Opal | Musical Instruments | Lavender | Tanzanite | |
25th Year | Silver | Silver | Silver Jewellery | Iris | |
26th Year | Pictures | ||||
27th Year | Sculptures | ||||
28th Year | Orchids | Lavender | Amethyst | Orchid | |
29th Year | Furniture | ||||
30th Year | Pearl | Green | Pearl | Lily | |
35th Year | Coral | Coral | Emerald | African violet | |
40th Year | Ruby | Red | Ruby | Gladiolus | |
45th Year | Sapphire | Blue | Sapphire | Blue iris | |
50th Year | Gold | Gold | Gold | Yellow rose | |
55th Year | Emerald | Green | Alexandrite | ||
60th Year | Diamond | White | Diamond | White rose |
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