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When a ring is worn regularly, durability becomes essential.
Gemstones vary in hardness and resistance.
Their hardness is measured on the Mohs scale, which ranks minerals from 1 (softest) to 10 (hardest).
As a general guideline:
- 7 and above on the Mohs scale is suitable for everyday wear
- Stones below that level can absolutely be worn, but benefit from more mindful use
Durability is not about fear. It is about knowing how your gemstone fits into your daily life.
Understanding hardness, without overthinking it
Use this chart as a reference, not a rulebook.
Gemstones & Mohs Hardness Scale, daily wear guidance:
Diamond · 10 - Exceptional resistance, ideal for daily wear.
Moissanite · 9.25 - Highly durable, with strong brilliance and lively light reflection.
Sapphire · 9 - Excellent everyday stone, elegant, refined, and long-lasting.
Spinel · 8 - Durable and stable, well suited for frequent wear.
Topaz · 8 - Good resistance, best worn with care to avoid sharp impacts.
Citrine · 7 - Bright and joyful, perfectly wearable with mindful daily care.
Tourmaline · 7 - Versatile and expressive, suitable for regular wear with a little extra care.
A stone at 7 does not mean fragile.
It simply means it appreciates a bit more attention, just like a silk blouse versus a denim jacket.
Daily wear is also about lifestyle
Hardness is only one part of the story.
Before choosing a gemstone, ask yourself:
- Will I wear this ring every day or only occasionally?
- Do I use my hands a lot during the day?
- Do I travel often with my jewelry?
- Do I prefer subtle elegance or strong brilliance?
- Am I drawn to colour, symbolism, or light reflection?
A gemstone should support your lifestyle, not restrict it.
Symbolism, colour, and personal connection
Some stones are chosen for their strength.
Others for their colour, energy, or emotional meaning.
There is no hierarchy.
A gemstone becomes precious the moment it resonates with you.
When it marks a moment, an intention, or a chapter of your life.
That emotional connection is just as important as durability.
For more details check our Birthstones page.
Choosing with intention, the Eterling way
At Eterling, we do not believe in one “perfect” gemstone.
We believe in:
- informed choices
- jewelry designed to be worn, not locked away
- stones that adapt to real life
- beauty that lasts, both emotionally and physically
Whether your stone is chosen for its strength, its light, its colour, or its symbolism, the right choice is the one that feels right for you.
And if you ever hesitate, we are always here to guide you.
✨ Because the most beautiful jewelry is the one that follows you through life.